religion

Rebel Rede

Hoi Sum June, 2011

My Heart is a Temple and My Religion is Love

“My heart has become capable of every form; it is a pasture for gazelles and a convent for Christian monks, and a temple for idols and the pilgrim’s Ka’ba, and the tablets of the Torah and the book of the Koran. I follow the religion of Love: whatever way Love’s camels take, that is my religion and my faith.” – Ibn Al-Arabi

Wow right? That is what I said when I first read this quote recently. I was so inspired by the imagery and message in this Al-Arabi quote! How much more peace and happiness would we have in the world if everyone followed the religion of love instead of religions of hate, intolerance, segregation? I think this quote is great food for thought and an opportunity for us Pagans to take a look at ourselves and our religious community. Are we a religion of love? Are we offering up ourselves and our services to all people and to all religions?

I was reading through a list of Pagan jokes yesterday and one of them was a list of “you might be giving Pagans a bad name if…” things. The surprising thing about that list is that a lot of Pagans I know do the things on that list and the things listed are things that could potentially really turn people off to Paganism. Ironically many of the traits listed are things that other (meaning non-Pagan) religious people also do, and they are the same things that the Pagan community often complains about. It always makes me sad when I see some of the things I disliked about Christianity creeping into the Pagan community. We need to be careful that we do not allow our religion to become as closed minded and closed off as some of the other religions have!

When people think of words like intolerance, hate, or segregation I would hope that they do not immediately think of Pagans or Paganism! I have seen many a Pagan who think that just because they are open to the GBLT community that means they are tolerant and loving people. Are those same Pagans as tolerant and loving towards Christians or Muslims though? Would a Christian feel as welcomed at a Pagan event as a gay person would? Are Pagans separating themselves from the “mainstream”, just like so many Christians claim to do? Or are Pagans a part of this world, integrated with the many diverse people and religions of this planet? We are not separate from the mainstream because the mainstream is made up of people, just like Paganism is made up of people! We are all living on this planet earth together. We may worship the Divine in different ways, but we are all still Divinely created!  Let us work towards making sure our Pagan community is a community of love, tolerance, and unity! I think it would be beautiful if one day we could all claim the religion of love. A day when people not only associate Pagans with the word love, but that they associate all people and religions with the word love! It is time for us Pagans to offer our hearts up as temples for all and to live out a religion of love!

Musings of a Massachusetts Witch

CricketSong January, 2011

Spirituality Or Religion?

What is the difference between spirituality and religion? Is there a difference or are the terms interchangeable? Why do some people claim to be religious while others call themselves spiritual? Am I spiritual or religious? What defines these terms and really how can you tell which is which? Are all pagans spiritual and all Judeo/Christians religious? These are the questions that I pondered and wanted to find some answers to. I asked friends, co-works, online buddies, family as well as my husband. After many discussions I found that people had a different opinion depending on where he/she was on their own life path and what spiritual beliefs they held. I meditated. I researched. And finally I had an answer that felt right and true to me.

The main difference between spirituality and religion is the freedom to choose a path towards enlightenment and ultimately, recognize of our sacred selves. Neither is better as it really is a personal choice. In fact an individual can be both spiritual and religious. As spirituality is the spark or the core of religion though it can be a form of religion on its own. Spirituality embraces oneness and seeks to find a balance between our physical manifestation and our sacred self. Spirituality is a private and personal path while religion tends to be more organized utilizing public rituals and formal doctrines. Spirituality is not. It is something that is lived each and every day.

Religion can be spiritual and should be spiritual although it isn’t for every individual. Religion without spirituality is empty. These are the individuals who attend Church on Sunday but live a hypocritical life every other day of the week. A spiritual person can also be religious though this person would be more sensitive to matters of spirit especially when religious dogma contradicts his or her own understanding of deity and the eternal now. Religion generally takes its inspiration from the past focusing on sacred texts as a way to reach salvation or enlightenment. It is concerned with the fear of displeasing deity as well as worshipping the deity who is believed to be transcendent (residing on another plane of existence). Religion believes that their path is the true path to reach this salvation while spirituality teaches that we can connect to deity through love of ourselves as others. Spirituality understands that all paths to deity are valid and embraces all world religions however it is not restricted by any of their doctrines or practices.

I am comfortable recognizing that I am a spiritual person. I have always been regardless of what religion I practiced. I was always aware of my relationship to deity and understood that it was important to seek oneness with other sacred beings regardless of what religion they practiced. At the present time I am Wiccan. That is my religion but I am also a spiritual being.

Pagan Theology

Porphyry October, 2009

Pagan theology short:  religious tradition

Is Paganism a religious tradition?

The sensible answer is “of course”.

But lets think about this a little be more.  First, I guess it depends on how you define “religious,” “tradition,” and “religious tradition.”  In some sense this is the same as asking if Paganism is a religion (which common sense again says it is) [1].  But I’d say its also more than simply asking if Paganism’s a religion, it also asks whether Paganism has a connection through time.  Not sure exactly what its connected through time to, but a connection nonetheless.  It could be a connection to a historical tradition, or it could be a repetitive series of actions or beliefs that exist through contemporary time.

First, lets look a little what the people who think about this professionally say.

Technically neo-Paganism doesn’t fall into the category of what would be considered a “Religion” at all.  That term is generally reserved for the globe spanning, teevee prechin’, bureaucracies that uphold conservative social values everywhere.  Instead it’s what’s known as a New Religious Movement (NRM) [2].  There are a lot of debates as to what, exactly, constitutes a NRM, but generally it needs to have come about recently (after World War II) and be different from other, existing, religions.  This term is used by scholars of religion to distinguish newer movements from existing, global, religions.  Of course the arguments come when you start asking what “different” means, and why Paganism, which claims a long tradition dating back before Christianity would be an NRM in the same category as spiritualism, theosophy, and the Unification Church.

Almost all neo-Pagan traditions fit into the NRM category because they are new, having been organized in the 1950’s and 1960’s.  And they are definitely different from established Religions.

From a standpoint of studying and categorizing religions, differentiating between “established” Religions that have a long tradition and new ones that may have been created yesterday in someone’s back yard makes sense.  The character of an established Religion will be different, it will have a rootedness in existing power structures and social groups, and it will have a heritage passed from one generation to another.  A NRM may, or may not, have some of these characteristics, but it most likely will not be as integrated into public and political life like an established religion.  This integration between the religious and public political power structures is one way that some have used to distinguish religions from smaller units like sects and cults.

For Ernst Troeltsch, an early 20th-century figure in the sociology of religion, “churches” were distinguished from “sects” by churches acceptance of the mainstream way of doing things, and their focus on hierarchy and external power structures [3].  Such organizations, like the religions of the book, are concerned with expanding worldly power, and dominating or “winning” as a religious faith.  On the other hand there are groups within the same movement that are more inwardly focused, more concerned, in the case of Christians, with building brotherly love and practicing the teachings of Jesus.  These more “liberal” groups form sects, which are distanced from the normal hubbub of the world and have little interest in dominating others.   In Christianity they general form as a result of the main church claiming exclusivity to the sacraments.  Those who call shenanigans on the boss church go get to form their own little one somewhere else and become a sect (or are killed or whatever).   The little ones that survive long enough get to grow big and strong and become denominations.  Or, if they are big and different enough, religions.

In many ways the idea of the sect as being inward focused on spiritual growth captures the neo-Pagan philosophy of “live and let live,” no proselytization, and organizational anarchy.   Definitions that focus on the world, like Troelisch’s, also would place neo-Paganism in the sect or movement category, reserving the term “Religion” for the dominant, global, religious organizations.

Why does all this matter for neo-Paganism?  Well, the first question that comes to mind is just how damn long do we have to practice our religion before it becomes accepted as a tradition? And how many of us does it take before neo-Paganism is accepted as a Religion in the same sense that other Religions are?  And when will we get to drop that stupid association with the New Age movement anyway? [4]

The key for Paganism, I believe, is not the tradition part.  We already have an established tradition, one that is consistent and accepted across the community.  Our history dating back to Gardner and the Pagan revival is well known and accepted by just about everyone.  Going further back than that, whether in the witchcraft branch of our ancestry or the reconstructionist branch, leads to a profoundly deep ancestry.  Even if all that is dismissed, Paganism sits squarely within the Western esoteric tradition, something with a rich, and colorful, history.

While individual traditions within the community have their own provenance, our respect for heritage and elders is a common feature throughout the community.  Perhaps because we are unsure of our place up against the “mainstream” religions, we lean even more heavily on learning about, understanding, and guarding our heritage and traditions.

The real question, I believe, is not whether neo-Paganism claims the mantle of “religion,” it already has, but how that mantle is perceived, and what we do with it.   Do we want to grow from a “religion” into a “Religion?”  Do we want a movement connected and interlocked with the existing power structures, but one that has more influence.  Or do we want to remain as an outsider, with all the risks and benefits that entails.

It is useful to first understand the challenges that limit neo-Paganisms scope and influence, because they determine how our religion works in the wider world.  I’m not necessarily advocating doing anything about any of this, that would be way too controversial, but I think some of the issues surrounding how we relate to the wider world are worth noting [5].

The first challenge is how neo-Paganism integrates into the rest of society.  I believe that the answer here is:  poorly.  Why is this the case?  The first and most obvious problem is that many neo-Pagan traditions are mystery religions and initiatory.  Anything requiring initiation is not going to be as popular as something where the doors and doctrine are open and available for all to see.  This initiatory and mystery tradition has given Paganism a false sense of exclusivity.  The idea that the Goddess calls you when you are ready is an interesting, romantic, concept, but if you look around she certainly does call from one predominate demographic more than anyone else.   And we all know who we are…[6]

What does this mean?  It means that Paganism as a religious tradition is relatively slow growing (despite the surveys) and will be destine to being a marginal social force.   If we keep bringing in people who look and think like we do we will not be as powerful a voice as we could be.  Why should we want to?  In times when there is a no-shit ecological and environmental crisis, for us to stay out of power is shameful. And I don’t mean going to our eco-action meetings, I mean speaking out on the teevee forcefully and righteously for the earth.  I mean growing Paganism so that there are more voices out there speaking for the earth.

The second challenge is the “no proselytization” rule.  This is a fundamental part of our theology, and violating it would violate the actual idea of Paganism as being tribal and local as opposed to global and catholic (small C).   But it limits our influence and ability to grow as a religion.  One would think, and I do, that given the interest in magic, witchcraft, and sorcery amongst our youth we wouldn’t need to recruit.  Posting a flyer at Borders [7] would be sufficient to garner an ever-increasing number of new Pagans just looking to participate.  That does not seem to be the case.  And I speak from experience as I am affiliated with one of the larger neo-Pagan groups in a large metropolitan area.  Sure we get some drop-bys, but few stay, and those that do are older and mature [8].  Of course that could be us, probably is, but I don’t see the kids that don’t show up at our rituals showing up at other Pagan events in the numbers I’d expect.

What does this mean?  It means we’re doing something wrong.  Kids are naturally magical.  There is a tremendous interest in many of the elements of our religion.  We even have the second biggest holiday of the year (Samhain) after Christmas (Yule), but we cannot convert that into members, influence, or new covens.

Why should we care?  We should only care if we think we have a message that counteracts the prevailing one of the earth being subject to Man’s rule.  We should care if we want to counter the mainstream Religions in their treatment of the Earth, gays, women, and knowledge.  Religions, as we have discussed, are linked to the larger political and social forces that shape history.  Sects, and NRMs, tend to be less plugged into how society works, and have less influence.  Of course there is a danger, Jesus message sure does get lost in the bureaucracies and dogma of the Christian Religions.  Ours might too.  But it seems like its seldom we actually get around to talking about these options and trade-offs.

The third issue is the tendency we have of not seeing our religion as a family tradition, but a choice.  What I’m talking about is the overwhelming pressure that’s placed on kids growing up in Protestant or Catholic (or Muslim) families to adopt and believe their religious traditions.  Now many of us (I am not one) grew up in traditional religions and have probably vowed to never inflict that crap on our kids.  That is probably a wise thing, but the lack of a strong tradition of passing our religion from one generation to the next hurts our ability to sustain us as a tradition.

Reinhold Niebuhr [9]  in his concept of how religions, sects, and denominations differ from each other saw sects facing a challenge after the first generation.  Those who remain in the sect after the first generation of founders generally do so for very different reasons than the first generation.  Initially the sect is attempting to differentiate itself from the main religion which it has broken off of, but with second generations social and economic forces, including rising incomes of an expanding membership, tend to push sect members into taking on a more integrated view of their role in the world.

In some ways Paganism is different, the founders, and the newer members, come to it for very different reasons than say members of a Christian sect would.  But at the same time those reasons, dissatisfaction with traditional religion, interest in magic, even being called by the Goddess, are reasons peculiar to America and Britain in the 20th century.  Whether those reasons stay relevant will determine how Paganism goes forward, and how it relates to the world.   How they change with the changing technological, social, and political forces may determine how many come to our tradition in the future.

Why does this matter?   It means that there are few families that show up to Pagan events (at least the ones I attend) when you compare that with a “normal” church [10].    Where is the religious education for our kids?  Its pretty well nonexistent, though some groups do try (such as spiral scouts) but in general there doesn’t seem to be that critical mass of kids in most areas to justify specialized curriculum and effort.

Why does all this matter?  Should people come to Paganism if they want to?  Shouldn’t we wait for them to be called as opposed to seeking them out?  Shouldn’t we avoid the pain in the ass behavior of traditional religions that indoctrinate kids instead of letting them decide on their own?  Sure.  But there are risks and consequences.

One of the biggest risks is the survival of Paganism as a religious tradition into the future.  While it has survived, and grown, since the 1950’s there are demographic changes, including changes in how people communicate and gather, that may affect neo-Paganism.  Likewise the beautiful environment we worship in now may change radically in the future.  A desert dustbowl devoid of large mammals may not be as attractive to worship as a balanced hardwood deciduous forest.

But the biggest risk is that if we don’t try, the other side wins.  Again.   By default [11].

Christianity won out originally because Paganism didn’t offer a path for the poor to see something better out of their lives.  It won out because some elements of society, women for example, were excluded from some of the mystery cults.  It’s winning changed the way the West worked for 2000 years.

Now I’m not advocating going out and thumping the Witches’ Bible or dragging people to circle.  What I am advocating is asking ourselves what kind of tradition do we have, and what kind of tradition do we want to make.  And how we can come together in a spirit of love for the Lord and Lady, under their protection and guidance, and build something that honors them, and saves the world.  Because, without more voices like ours there may be no hope for the earth.

That is the real question behind a discussion of whether Paganism is a religious tradition.  What kind of tradition are we, and what kind do we want to make?

[1] Throughout this article I’m going to use the term “religion” to mean several different things.  There is the “capital R” Religions who are the popular kids on the block that first come into mind when someone we know says “I’m religious.”  Islam, Christianity, Judaism, Hinduism, Shinto, Taoism, etc.  There is also the “little r” religion, which simply means a belief system that you accept and follow.  So we can legitimately say that the religion of Paganism is not a Religion.  Of course this requires a little more explaining than I’m doing here, which we will do later in the article.

[2] Christopher Partridge (ed.).  New Religions:  A Guide:  New Religious Movements, Sects, and Alternative Spiritualities, Oxford, 2004.  The whole idea of what “new,” “religious,” and “movement” means gets worked over again as you consider NRMs.  Many NRMs are “new” to one group, but “old” to another.  Take Zen Buddhism (please) for example:  its pretty well established in the Asian market, but its pretty new in the West.  Western esotericism, which is pretty much what we mean by “Pagan,” is perhaps the real categorical overlord in our discussion of Paganism as a religious tradition.  However that requires a thorough discussion of the development of the esoteric tradition in the West, something that we don’t have time for here.

[3] Malcom Hamilton.  The Sociology of Religion, Routledge, 1995, influential before 1920 in terms of theology, Troeltsch’s writings are still considered important in the sociology of religion.

[4] The tendency to lump Paganism in with the New Age movement is both understandable and tragic.  This is understandable, because the New Age movement and Paganism have many concepts, practices, and followers in common.  Tragic because the perceived narcissism and shallowness of the New Age movement taints Paganism with its stink, which is terrible for our serious and faith-filled intent.  I am not making an argument that the New Age movement is narcissistic, shallow, or stinks, I’ll leave that for others.  What I am saying is that the association between the New Age and Paganism is usually made by our detractors, and it doesn’t help us.

[5] I personally believe that neo-Paganism should work to figure out how to remain anarchic and diverse, while at the same time becoming a unified voice and community that co-exists within existing power structures instead of outside of them.  This may not be easy at all, and may entail brining in people to the community who are not like us, but at the same time I believe that the potential to do good through a Pagan perspective is huge, and much needed in the world today.  If nothing else there needs to be a powerful Western counter-weight to the religions of the book, something we should be providing but are not.

[6] While we can examine surveys and polls which show us clustered around the information technology and nursing/teaching professions, I think a more fundamental demographic is disenfranchised middle-class and white.  Of course there are exceptions, but it is the disenfranchisement, the sense that you don’t count or that the way congregants interact in mainstream churches, that really matters when thinking about the general demographic that comes to Paganism.  I am fond of pointing out that all the jackasses that run around in mainstream churches would have been the same jackasses, just Pagan, in the times before Christianity.  Just because Paganism today has a lower jackass to geek ration doesn’t mean it didn’t have a higher one when it was mainstream.  This is, in my opinion, the real challenge to any growth or expansion of Paganisms influence, how to deal with jackasses.

[7] Ok Barnes and Noble as Borders is pretty much a toy story that occasionally sells books.  Ok, what I really mean is lurking on the Amazon boards and posting because that is where people buy books now.

[8] Having had 50 people show up for a ritual I am thankful that only the committed few stay.  Otherwise this column would be talking about the problems of Pagan crowd control and managing large groups…

[9] Hamilton (1995).  I know I keep citing the survey work and not the original sources, but this is a short, and I’m not sociologist of religion anyway.   The idea of how to classify and distinguish between religions, sects, denominations, cults and whatnot has been debated extensively in the literature of the sociology of religion.  My focus in this discussion is in the basic ideas, not on the detail build-out on those ideas that would be necessary for a full discussion of how you define various types of religion.

[10]  My basis of comparison is a Unitarian Universalist church where approximately 1/3 of the Sunday attendance is children, and about 20-100 adults are involved in teaching the kids every day.

[11] My use of polarities and the language of conflict is simply a function of how I see the world.  In truth there are a large number of Christians, both liberal and conservative, speaking up for the environment.  Likewise the equation of “grow big, become inclusive = gain more influence” is not necessarily valid.  It is entirely possible that bringing more voices to the table would change the message, or disrupt it entirely.  I think the challenge is a delicate and difficult one: how to decide what direction the Pagan tradition should go in so that it keeps its diversity and fundamental values, but becomes a more decisive force in the world.  I do not pretend to have the answer, I’m just poking you with the question.

Coming Home

Blacksun October, 2009

Some feel it physically.  It’s a tingle in the spine or a rush of blood all over the body.  Some describe it as an overwhelming blast to the mind where open-eyed visions come and go so quickly you can’t really recognize what they are.  Nearly everyone says it’s an intense feeling of ‘rightness’  where you ‘just know’ you’re where you should be in this universe.  You’ve come home.  That’s the phrase Pagans have adopted to describe what is felt by many who discover us and who have a magical and spiritual awakening.  It is an epiphany when they encounter our way of looking at things.

Not everyone experiences it.  That doesn’t mean they aren’t just as inspired or committed as those who do, but for those who have experienced that ‘ah hah!’ moment, it will stick in their mind forever.  Psychologists have lots of ways and words to describe the event but unless you’ve experienced it yourself you can’t understand the intensity of such a moment.  The person will usually freeze in place and their eyes will dilate.  They might quickly blush and then turn white, as if they’re going into shock.  In fact, they may do this several times within a very short time.  It’s possible they might shake or have small muscle spasms of the arms and legs.  Almost without exception, they will begin to smile and it will grow bigger and bigger until it seems their face will break.  More often than not, they’ll giggle.  Even big tough guys will giggle.  Some might begin to cry because of the intensity of emotions they are feeling.

‘Coming home’ isn’t exclusive to our faith.  Other religions call it by different names but the reaction is just as intense for followers of those religions when a person finds their own perfect fit of ideas and ideals.  I’ve seen several ‘homecomings’ in the last thirty years of being Pagan and I experienced my own.  When I see it happening to somebody, I usually try to stay by them for a while to offer moral support and a kind word or two so they know that what they are experiencing isn’t anything bad.  I, like many others, will offer a, “Welcome home,” at some point to the person.  It never fails to elicit a laugh of relief from the person undergoing the flood of emotions.  The usual pattern is that the person will begin to calm down in less than a half hour but I have seen it take longer.

After the initial episode, there will probably be ‘aftershocks’ that bring back the giggles or other symptoms over the next week or two.  Though these will likely be less intense and shorter in duration, they can still make for some embarrassing moments.  I will usually recommend to the subject that they have a supply of chocolate handy to help them ground when these ‘aftershocks’ occur.  Most people find chocolate is a very good way of getting the body to pay attention to itself when they are overwhelmed by strong emotions.  (Besides… it tastes so good!)

After the newcomer has found some semblance of balance, then what?  They’ve been changed; their worldview has shifted and everything has taken on a new and often bizarre meaning.  Though they usually don’t consider this strangeness threatening, it can be confusing enough to cause them some problems.  The most common of these problems is a sense that they are somehow disconnected from what their senses report is going on around them.  Their mind is trying to make a new ‘sense’ of common events and sensations and hasn’t had much practice yet.  Consequently, the depth of meaning that has been collected for these events and sensations is not fully accessed and there is a kind of ‘hollowness’ to them.  This can be quite disturbing and the newcomer should be reassured that the mind won’t take long (a week or two at the most, usually) to rectify this condition.  In fact, the less the person pays attention to the strangeness, the more quickly it disappears.  It’s caused by the mind’s new ability to perceive in the added dimension we call magic that most often will produce this temporary weirdness.  Most people get used to it quite quickly.  From a psychological point of view, it is an added way to communicate with the unconscious.  However you might explain it, the feeling of being slightly out of phase or disconnected from ‘normal reality’ usually begins to fade almost from the moment a person recognizes they are experiencing it.  Once again, they will find a balance that suits them.

Even before this internal turmoil has settled, newcomers will often begin to go through two other phases, both of which can be a problem for them and others.  I will label these the ‘Gate-mouth’ and the ‘Bashing’ phases.

The Gate-mouth phase is where the person just can’t shut up about their newfound religious conversion.  They believe that their feeling of wonder and excitement should be shared by anyone and everyone close to them.  They believe that if people only realized the feeling of ‘rightness’ that they have found, they’d be flocking to this Pagan religion by the thousands!  They want everyone to know just how lucky, how blessed they’ve been and believe they can explain it to others well enough that they will want it for themselves.  They’re wrong.

In the first place, to ‘explain’  a religion almost never causes another person suddenly to change their spiritual perceptions and religious affiliations.  Secondly, it’s almost impossible to ‘explain’ any religion!  Religions are much more than ideas or ways of doing things; they are conditions of the spirit that must be developed and slowly built layer by layer of meaning.  The newcomer’s recent epiphany has led them to believe that their religious ideas have suddenly changed.  What actually took place was the result of a longer process that culminated in their ‘coming home’ experience.  But they are so focused on that one moment they think of it as the only thing that pertains to their new outlook.  Third, sounding off about being a Pagan of any stripe is often dangerous.  Despite the laws that protect us in this country against discriminating on the basis of religious creed, the fact is that it happens all the time.  Declaring that you are a Pagan will usually result in some sort of prejudicial reactions from friends, neighbors, employers, and even the government itself.  Not only that, but it will put others who associate with you in a less secure position as well.

Last, the Gate-mouth phase is all too much like proselytizing. There are sound reasons why this practice is declared taboo by Pagans.  The main reason is that it is wrong to attempt to mess with another person’s most personal beliefs.  No matter how wonderful you might think your religion is, to think that others should adopt it is to disregard or disrespect their own freedom of mind and heart.  That in itself is a big violation of our code to harm none.  At the heart of it, proselytizing is an ego trip from someone who is not yet comfortable with their own beliefs.  The newcomer’s desire to talk to everyone about their new way of seeing the world may be a natural reaction, but it isn’t one that benefits them or others in any way.  As difficult as it may seem at times, they must learn to sit quietly with their new way of being and interpret their experiences without attempting to explain them to others who will likely divert the person’s attention away from what’s important to learn.

The other phase that I wish to cover is called Bashing.  Usually the term is connected with the religion that the newcomer has recently rejected, as in ‘Christian Bashing.’  There is a tendency to view one’s old religious culture as being wrong, filled with hypocrisy, and based upon a flawed understanding of reality.  The fact is: all religions are flawed because they’re created by human beings… our own religion included.  And humans almost never escape being hypocritical about some part of them… once again: us included.  All religions can be wrong for some people just as they can be right for others.  Bad things happen in the name of religion because of bad actions and ideas from the people who populate them.  Historically speaking, this has been the case as far back as time and it will continue to be so in the future.  To believe that every idea, action, and person from one faith is better than those of another is, once again, disrespectful, arrogant, and harmful.  When we bash another’s religion, we are wasting time being focused on something we can’t do anything about.  The purpose of all religions is to form a connection between the believer and their god(s).  Bashing doesn’t do that.  It should never be tolerated from any quarter.

The enthusiasm of those who have ‘come home’ is infectious and a delight to experience.  Nothing should be done to discourage it.  Those who have more familiarity with our faith should do everything they can to help these people integrate their experiences and enjoy the wonders of this joyful time.  They should also help them avoid the mistakes of Gate-mouth and Bashing, both of which put them and us at risk and deplete the magic available to all.

Under 18

Blacksun September, 2009

Kids are a problem.  No, no, I’m not talking about the trials of parenthood; I’m referring to the problem of teaching minors about Paganism.  Though there aren’t any laws that specifically say to teach somebody’s child about a religion is unlawful, there exist community and cultural customs that condemn the teaching if it is done without parental permission.  In the case of Paganism, the problem is just as big as it would be if a Jewish family was to find their child being taught Islam… maybe bigger.  The problem is complex and I don’t intend to cover every facet here, but I will put forth some ideas about it in the hope that it will stir the cauldron a little and cause some discussion.The age of majority in the USA is generally considered to be eighteen for most everything.  When a person reaches that age, they can be held legally responsible for their public and private decisions.  That is, they can legally be bound by contracts, sued in a court of law, hold a driver’s license, get married, join the armed services, be able to vote, and generally be treated as an adult in most social and legal things.  If anyone of that age or older comes to us and asks for teaching or initiation, there isn’t anything that can be done by parents or relatives to legally prevent it.  But if they are under that age, there are a lot of legal avenues a parent or guardian can pursue to make it a problem for anyone who accepts the child for studentship without parental permission.

Beside the possible legal trouble, a parent who doesn’t understand our spirituality is often afraid of it and will react in a violent way when they find out we have been teaching their child about ‘witchcraft.’  It doesn’t matter what we might call our brand of spirituality, what most parents will immediately think is that ‘devil worshipers’ are indoctrinating their child!  No amount of quiet reasoning will work against their panic, and the facts have nothing to do with their perceptions.  In case you forgot: perception is reality.  The determination and ferocity of a parent who believes their child is in danger should never be underestimated.  And even if you have parental permission, you should still be aware of how your teachings might be misinterpreted by society and attract the unwanted attentions of any number of governmental groups.  This can be true even if the child you are teaching is your own!

There is a great deal of information that can be passed on to the next generation but you should be conscious of four considerations whenever you go about teaching anyone about our faith:

  1. WHAT is being taught?  There is more to a myth besides a fun story, for instance.  The traditions and lore of any faith group reflect its values and perspectives as well as customs and culture.  Information about any aspect of magic or spirituality always contains a subtext that you need to explore fully before trying try to pass it on.
  2. WHO is being taught?  Information that would be appropriate for a person who is 20 is not likely to be suitable for a youngster of 10.  A child probably won’t be interested in the complexities of western religious and political history.  Similarly, an adult isn’t likely to want to draw pictures of Isis for an hour.  And, in case you didn’t know, boys learn differently than girls.  They pick up information and use it in different ways, even if it is the same information.  It is not just a cultural prejudice; male and female brains work differently.  And, as any parent of teenagers will confirm, there sometimes isn’t any way to figure out how a pubescent child will react to anything!  Even they don’t have a clue.  There’s a good reason that the most common answer to the perennial question, “What were you thinking?” is a blank look and a mumbled, “I don’t know.” They really don’t.
  3. HOW is it being taught?  You can teach the information about incense making by the book.  But to get down and dirty with the actual making of a particular compound, to use it for an actual purpose, or to present it to others with, “I made this,” will make the learning more powerful and meaningful by far.  Learning is more than memorizing information; it’s about making a change in the learner.
  4. WHY is it being taught?  There must be a purpose and a plan to your teaching.  Simply to spout information is not the same as teaching.  Information needs to be related to real life as well as everything else that the student has or will encounter.  Any teacher worth their salt will transcend their own agendas and look to the needs and visions of their students.  If you teach because you think it will make you look important, you will only be seen that way by yourself.  Think back to the teachers in your life that have had the most impact on you and you will see the truth of this.

Our ideas and ways of looking at life are especially appealing to people in their late teens.  Our freedom of spirit and joy of living are much like their own youthful enthusiasm.  And, at least on the surface, our belief in magic seems to answer their wish for simple solutions to the complex problems they are becoming aware of all around them.  We will always have those who think of magic as a quick fix for all the ills in the world. They come with stars in their eyes, blinded to the fact that all true magic workers are hard workers.  Their naivety might be a source of amusement but it also makes them extremely vulnerable.  They so much want to believe there are easy ways to overcome large problems they will do almost anything to prove themselves ‘worthy’ of such fantastical powers.  Instead of allowing them to be victimized, we need to find ways of educating them about the real powers of magic.  Simply trying to burst their bubble of fantasy will not work.  They will reject our discouraging words and go looking for someone who will reinforce their dreams.  We must translate their visions into actions that allow them to find their own truths and powers.  Putting them to work on real projects, giving them an opportunity to figure out how to make something work and make a change is the greatest teacher of all.  Yes, they will make mistakes; who doesn’t?  But let’s be frank, isn’t that the way we learned?  Celebrate their successes and don’t ever be too busy to offer help.

Because we don’t have ‘all the answers’ written down, our beliefs are centered on individual experiences.  We call them ‘the mysteries’ because that best describes the role these have for us.  We ‘solve’ these mysteries by living the moment and discovering who and what we are in relation to the reality of our experiences.

Providing opportunities for the young to encounter their own mysteries needs to be tailored to the abilities of the student.  Most school systems use a three-tiered structure for teaching youngsters.  The youngest group usually covers from age six to eleven or twelve.  The next learning group is the so-called ‘tweens,’ ages twelve to fifteen.  Last, there is the sixteen to eighteen group.  There are sound reasons behind splitting up the learning in this way.  Each age group learns in different ways.

The brain functions of the youngest group are nothing like the oldest.  Though they absorb prodigious amounts of information at an astounding pace, the information is in its least complex form.  Very little associative thinking goes on in this age group.  For instance, a child in this group might easily learn the names for every town in their state but not be able to understand a map.  Complex relationships between one thing and another are difficult for them to understand.  That’s why stories for this age group are written in such black-and-white terms; heroes are all-good and villains are all-bad.  No explanation is necessary about why the kiss from a charming prince is required to awaken Sleeping Beauty, it simply does.  As any parent who has had a child go through this age knows, explaining why a certain rule is established doesn’t mean anything to these kids.  That’s why, “Because I said so,” really is the best explanation in many cases.  Teaching this group about Paganism requires information that is not subtle:  Pan is the god of wild things… period.  The more you explain, in some cases, the less they will understand.

The middle group, the ‘tweens,’  is in the transitional stage from one method of learning to the other.  Their comfort zone in learning is still back with the black and white, childhood model.  But their world is steadily growing and they’re becoming more independent every day.  Relationships are now more apparent and reasons are becoming necessary to explain them.  This is the age of reason for these people so what is taught to them needs to be accompanied with more in-depth information.  Motivations behind actions and beliefs begin to play an increasingly important role in their understanding and they will question boundaries and limitations more.  Because their bodies are going through an accelerated growth time, they will often physically test themselves against many of these limitations and dare the universe to slap them down.

The oldest group is making its entrance into adulthood and the methods by which they learn are pretty much the same for the rest of their life.  Associative or relational thinking has become more comfortable and its value to the student has been steadily growing for several years by now.  From here on, the student will question relative value structures, relying less on quantitative and more on qualitative information.  Though their decision-making abilities are relatively immature, they nevertheless feel the need for independence and freedom to act.  Lessons must relate to this urge or the importance of the information will not be perceived.  Now, not only does the information about Pan being a god of wild things become a part of their overall consideration, but background information that makes Pan a more interesting and complete god-form must accompany it.

Our rituals allow the primary school child to enjoy the fantasy and wonder of our beliefs.  For the middle school aged, they also teach something about the complexities of those beliefs.  For the young adults, the fullness of meaning is a feast for their minds and hearts.  It is the same demarcation as the teaching levels.

Teaching about our beliefs is quite different from exercising them on circle.  Nothing we do, with the exception of where we meet and with whom, is a secret.  When you teach others about our beliefs, our lore and practices, you should be mindful of how your words will be interpreted.  Your students or audience need to understand what is meant, not just hear the words.  For instance, “to make a spell,” will undoubtedly be interpreted as some sort of supernatural hocus-pocus by any who are not aware of the processes involved.  Far better you should forego the term and explain the process.  Then you can tell them that that process is called spell craft.  The same goes for many other words and phrases we commonly use in Paganism.  All specialized knowledge has its jargon and we aren’t any exception.  Educating others requires us to explain things without the confusion of language that can be easily misinterpreted.

Teaching others is also a way of learning.  Every teacher is a student and every student is a teacher.  The Pagan faiths have grown and will continue to grow because its people have had the courage to teach and train others.  It is one way we can help our faith group become better, both because we will refine our own knowledge and because we will gain new perspectives with each person who comes to us.  We must take this challenge seriously and never allow charlatans or abusers to rule over people whom the gods have sent our way.

The “Roads” of Religious Paths

Administrator July, 2006

In this modern day, our highway system an infrastructure made by man and comprised of concrete asphalt and steel, is built upon routes that are delineated from adjacent real estate by deeded and recorded easements, routes that are so inflexible as to be set in stone. We all take this system for granted; seldom questioning why the road we are traveling upon takes this particular path. For the most part our highway system does a wonderful job of getting from where we are at to wherever our destination happens to be. However this system of exact routes has not always been the rule.


A century ago, in large parts of rural America, roads were ambiguous routes, more of a concept than the concrete inflexible roadbeds as we have today. If you lived in those times and were to be traveling upon these wonderful old roads you would be quick to discover that they were paved only by the earth compacted under the feet of those that had passed that way before you. If traveling in rainy weather and you encountered a section of the road that had become impassable due to a muddy bog, rather than to risk getting mired in the muck, if possible you simply detoured around the bog, blazing a new section of the road which was sure to be taken by those following in your path.


Routes that connected two cities, might be fairly well defined in areas were natural geological obstacles prevented variances in the path, while in areas where the going was easier the road might fork with one path venturing into a village and the other path serving as a bypass much as we have bypasses today, and often these two paths would converge, becoming as one later in the journey.


In today’s world, man has found it necessary to establish al sorts of laws regarding the usage of the highway system. We have speed limits, maximum and sometimes minimum. We have passing and no passing zones, weight, length, height, and width limits, as well as countless other rules of the road. There are laws establishing taxation and tolls to pay for the upkeep of this infrastructure. Each of the before mentioned, are laws designed by and enforced by man, presumably for the safety and good of the public. Whereas a century ago few if any laws regarding road usage existed.


It does not take too much of a stretch of the imagination to see a certain analogy between roads, past or present to the history man’s interpretations of religions or spiritual paths.


Today, many religions seek to define, to set in stone, dogma and doctrine authored by man as laws, often these laws that are authored by man are concealed behind a façade that perpetuates a belief that these same laws or doctrines originated from supreme deity. Due to the very nature of our modern society we find ourselves unable to contend with esoteric shades of gray, and compelled by the desire to define or package everything into uniform descriptive packages. We feel compelled to establish exactly what our faiths represent, their direction, and various tenets. We seek to set in stone the exact routes and boundaries of our spiritual paths, just as our highway system follows uniform deeded easements. The end result of this process of defining faith or spiritual path is to either purposefully or inadvertently discourage and or even eliminate esoteric or free thought.

The previous issue of "Pagan Pages" included an article entitled "Pagan As Free-Thinkers" by Reverend Crystal. The Reverend wrote;


"So often we attempt to take what is so wonderful about paganism and squish it into a box that was really meant for the book religions of the world. Now, in all fairness, there are many reasons to try and do that. Some include the legalities of what is considered a "religion" under the law."


Sometimes it is necessary to comply with the demands of secular legalities and define who and what we are, but we must in practice seek a point of balance, somewhere between defining strict descriptive boundaries to comply with secular legalities and allowing freedom of religion for the individual. Otherwise we face the risk of becoming as those religions that discourage free thought and eliminate the possibility for the individual to pursue that, which as Reverend Crystal wrote, "the path to the divine is an individual journey for each person."


So why does one’s path to the divine, absolutely have to have rigid inflexible borders just as our modern roads have rigid deeded easements? Why can we not accept that our brother or sister follows a different path, parallel but yet slightly different?


Christians use scriptures such as John 14:6 ("Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.") as a means to justify a rigid exclusive doctrine, as they tend interpret the passage to mean that ONLY Christians can achieve salvation. They take this passage and others quite literally, ignoring the possibility that he meant that the principles and tenets of his teachings and philosophy are "the way" and instead they try to make it, man’s literal interpretation "law" that only those that worship him in a manner prescribed by humans, can achieve spiritual salvation. However there is a small grassroots movement of Christians seeking to reevaluate the meaning of this and other passages, one such group is The Church Of Interfaith Christians.


A FANTASTIC CHANGE HAS BEGUN IN CHRISTIANITY!


The slogan above is displayed on each page of interfaithchristians.org signifying to progressive Christians that they have found a fresh breath of air, and after reading several web pages, Christians that also practice other paths such as Buddhism, Hinduism, Wicca, Paganism, or other Earth based traditions, realize that they have found an inclusive home. Others who may practice only a Christian path, but who are tired of doctrine and dogma that seems to be the anti thesis to the very teachings of Christ also find a spiritual home there as well.


Beginning as an e-mail discussion group in 2002 and quickly evolving into a church, one that is listed in the Encyclopedia of World Religions as a new denomination of Christianity, the Church of Interfaith Christians (COIC) has more than two hundred members world wide, many who practice a Christian/whatever path. While its numbers are low compared to other groups, one must realize that everything that has been accomplished to date has been done totally without any tithes or other cash flow that would allow for publicity, but rather just by "word of mouth" from volunteers.


Unlike other Christian denominations, the COIC never dictates the manner in which its ordained ministers conduct their individual ministries nor does it require its lay members to adhere to a strict doctrine, but rather encourages the ministers and members to seek out the sprit and explore their individual callings, in the worship of God/Goddess. The one doctrine that the COIC has authored is a doctrine to establish no doctrines. Unlike many Christian organizations there are no "rules" of the road. Rules that regulate one on their spiritual journey just as highway laws regulate travel upon the byways of our modern transportation infrastructure.


To explain and define the difference between the COIC and other Christian denominations, the founder of the COIC, Reverend Ernest A. Steadman wrote; "The Interfaith Christian embraces all positive spiritual paths including Shamanism and earth-based traditions, often being called upon to heal gaps between the many disparate religious faiths using the original teachings of Jesus Christ, minus convoluted manmade doctrine." He went on to further explain his concept(s) with a quote of the Dalai Lama;


"The greater our awareness is regarding the value and effectiveness of other religious traditions, then the deeper will be our respect and reverence toward other religions. This is the proper way for us to promote genuine compassion and a spirit of harmony among the religions of the world."


Reverend Steadman started the e-mail discussion group as a forum for those seeking to develop their awareness of other religious traditions and celebrate that diversity so as to promote harmony and healing among the various religions. Reverend Steadman had long noted that on many of the hundreds of e-mail groups, any Christian that varied from that "road set in stone" was immediately set upon by self appointed protectors of the faith with just as much ferocity as these "Christian guardians" attacked practitioners of other faiths. He further justified his position on the founding of the COIC by quoting 1 Corinthians 12: verses 4-6; "Now there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit. Now there are varieties of service, but the same Lord; there are varieties of working, but it is the same God who inspires them all in everyone." Always giving it as his opinion that the only difference between the deities of the world’s religions was that difference authored by man, a difference designed to serve the needs of the flesh (the organization) and not the needs of the individual’s spiritual enlightenment.


The e-mail discussion forum grew into a fellowship of friends, an extended family. And as the various commentaries offered by the membership of the group took on more of the aspects of sermons, the group became a church. One that now offers ordinations to anyone absolutely free of charge. The e-mail group remains open to anyone regardless of path, but in order to comply with secular authorities and give some degree of credibility to the ordinations offered by the COIC there is now a requirement for those petitioning for ordination to profess a "Christian slash whatever" belief, or otherwise involving Christ in some form or fashion in their practice.


The church’s website is a volunteer effort and a work in progress, archiving articles submitted by members of all faiths, including various ceremonies such as handfastings. Dozens of pages have been contributed that cover a wide range of topics, from developing understanding between the world’s religions to defending religious freedoms.


But of all of the articles and writings of individual members found in the web pages on the interfaithchristians.org web site, the phrase that sums up everything, has become the slogan of the COIC, "ONE GOD – Many Names / ONE SON – Many Paths / ONE TRUTH – Many Faiths" by this statement we mean that we believe that there is an universal deity, known by many names, one that inculcates universal brotherly love and understanding. ONE SON who taught principles that are also found in all religions and regardless of their chosen path, those that follow these philosophies have an equal chance to obtain spiritual enlightenment. And finally if one opens their hearts and minds and "thinks out of the box" created by mankind to establish the boundaries of the "road" of their particular path and takes note of the similarities in the paths of all religions, one finds that ONE TRUTH which is also common truth throughout the Many Faiths of the world.


We cordially invite the readers of PaganPages.org to check out interfaithchristians.org, in the hopes that together Interfaith Christians and Pagans can work to promote acceptance and tolerance of all faiths.


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author bio:


Reverend Ed Crabtree D.D. (Hon)


Chief Executive Officer

The Church Of Interfaith Christians


Senior Pastor

Lighthouse On The CornerMinistries