SUBSCRIBE

Book Review: Love Magic by Lilith Dorsey

May 1st, 2017

 

Book Review: Love Magic: Over 250 Spells and Potions for Getting It, Keeping It, and Making It Last

 

 

by Lilith Dorsey

Published by Weiser Books, 2016

Paperback; $12.15 at Amazon

This connection between magic and eroticism is an obvious one. They both encompass absolutely every sense. We lose and find ourselves in magic and love, if we are lucky.”

So begins the introduction to this 275-page book, which seems especially appropriate for Beltane.

The first chapter presents spells for self-love and happiness.

These are the root of your magical success,” she wrote in the introduction.

That is followed by chapters on romantic, marriage, fertility, universal love and erotic adventures. As diverse as situations can be, so are the magical traditions from which the spells are drawn.

There are spells and potions for finding love, keeping love, and healing yourself so that you are ready for love. The book includes rituals for invoking goddesses of love and for love gone bad. There are even recipes for foods such as Simply Sensual Flower Fudge and Oshum Seduction Salsa, because, she writes, “Seduction is best begun at the table.”

Dorsey distinguishes between spells for a general dose of universal love and those intended to connect specific individuals, and provides spells and formulas for each. She also stresses the importance of ritual cleansing – such as baths, smudging and using magical floor washes –as “one of the most important things you can do for yourself and your home.”

Along with cleansing spells, she recommends divination and healing work, regardless of the problem, and offers a variety of each.

In addition, she discusses the ethics of love magic, and provides information about sacred botanicals and crystals, and ends with six chapters from the Book of Psalms and some recommended reading.

Dorsey is a spiritual practitioner and has been a professional psychic for more than 20 years. She is also an anthropologist, which prompted her to include historical spells. Magically, she is dedicated “to many different spiritual traditions, including Santeria, which is more properly known as La Regla Lucumi. In that religious tradition, I have been deemed, through divination, to be a daughter of the goddess (Orisha) Oshun,” she writes. Shun’s domain, Dorsey adds, includes love and marriage. “She is intimately acquainted with all facets of love.”

Dorsey wrote the book to share her knowledge and experience.

Click Image for Amazon Information

 

Sometimes I check out some of the Wiccan chat rooms, and I have done my fair share of taking a new Witch or two under my wing and I have noticed that a lot of novice Witches get really nervous when it comes to writing their own circle casts and Quarter-calls.  More often than not the reason seems to be that they are afraid it “won’t be good enough”, or “respectful enough.”

I think of Wicca as a joyful religion, and have always felt that if it is truly heartfelt, and done with respect, there’s no such thing as “good enough”.  I also believe that in the event we should misspeak some words or become tongue tied that our deities and elementals are just as likely to be amused at our human imperfections as we are.  I also feel that when we use our own words there is nothing that shows more respect.

I use 3 different circle cast’s for spell work in general, the first one I picked up somewhere along the way and don’t remember where, but since it spoke to me I use it, the other 2, I wrote myself.  They are as follows:

I cast this circle thrice about to keep unwelcome spirits out

This is a sacred temple now for me

As is my will so mote it be!

This space is a magick circle

Protected by sacred flame

Nothing shall enter in here

Lest I call it in by name!

I cast my circle Widdershins

For the waning stage the Moon is in

It’s my intent to remove, or send things away

So my sacred circle is cast this way!

As you can see they are all simple enough to memorize easily which allows you to raise energy much better that if you are trying to read something.  They are not elaborate but can be done with love and reverence.

I have only one quarter call that I have written and use, as follows:

Sacred Element of Earth you have sustained me since my birth

Help speed along this spell for me

I ask of you so mote it be!

Sacred Element of Air, please grace me with your presence fair

Help speed along this spell for me

I ask of you so mote it be!

Sacred Element of Fire please take my soul and spirit higher

Help speed along this spell for me

I ask of you so mote it be!

Sacred Element of water please heed the word of your Wiccan daughter

Help speed along this spell for me

I ask of you so mote it be!

If you are male and want to use this quarter call you could try something for the water element like, I ask you to my circle run, to hear the words of your Wiccan son, or anything that works for you.

Release the circle and elements in your usual fashion.  So rather than thinking of the quality of what you write, think of it as a personal message to the divine that only you can write for yourself. I am certain that they’ll love you for it!

 

The Enchantment of Candles

 

candle1

 

With a hushed prayer, I light the sacred candle of Hekate. The flame leaps to life, casting ghostly shadows upon the temple walls. In silence, I meditate upon the day, reflecting on the blessings that I have witnessed and contemplating the challenges I faced. I thank the Queen of Shadows for the light She has provided, awakening to the illumination of lessons learned. I softy blow out the candle—hallowed gratitude upon my breath…

Simple yet effective, candle magic is a central focus of enchantment in my home. The creating of candle centered spells is both relaxing and invigorating. The choosing of the color, shape and scent of the candle is magic in the making. I can spend hours in a candle shop, relishing over all the vibrant color combinations and exotic aromas. The rubbing on of oils and rolling in enchanted herbs sends my senses into a whirlwind adventure into worlds of alluring charm.

candle2

 

One of my favorite forms of candle magic is the creation of artistic offerings. The picture above is a hallowed offering to the Nature Spirits and Faery. The fashioning of this work of art is a scared act and the magic emanating from it can be felt every time I light the candle. I have many of these around my home filled with all kinds of found objects from nature. They are like mini altars and can easily be disguised as a center peace on the kitchen table or coffee table.

candle3

 

For fast and easy candle magic, tea lights are the way to go. By adding a drop oil and a pinch of herbs appropriate for the spell, this simple charm is for those of us with busy lives. You can even carve some runes onto the top of the tea light with a toothpick or right out a charm of paper and place beneath the candle. If the scent of the burning herbs are overwhelming, sprinkle less herbs on the candle or simply sprinkle them around the candle. Make sure to burn this candle on a heatproof dish, the herbs and oil can catch fire.

 

candle4

 

I found this lovely candle of Hekate on etsy. When you burn a tea light behind it, the wax figure glows. It was scented in oil and I occasionally anoint the wax with more. This is a beautiful way to show devotion to the Goddess of the Flame and each time I light the candle I ask Hekate to bless my home with happiness, health, and harmony.

While there are many forms of candle magic, these are my favorites and ones that I use on a daily basis. Be creative with this bewitching art form, the beauty that comes from the making of candle spells will bring enchantment into your home and life.

*There are many lists of the appropriate candle colors to use in magic as well as herbs and oils. I like to use my intuition on the making of many of my charms and spells. What one color says on a list may be different from how that particular color makes you feel.

Book review

The Witches’ Almanac, Issue 36

Water: Our Primal Source

Published by the Witches’ Almanac Ltd.

almanac

This almanac, founded in 1971, has become a traditional pagan reference. It starts with the beginning of the astrological year, running from Spring 2016-17. Its theme is water; the current year’s theme is air.

One of the parts I find most useful is the moon calendar noting the moon’s phases and place in the zodiac. I also enjoy the year’s astrological forecasts for each zodiac sign, beginning with the vernal equinox. Each two-page spread touches on highlights for the year, health, love, spirituality and finance.

Other reference information includes astrological keys, eclipses, retrograde planetary motion and how to plant by the phases of the moon. While all this information is available somewhere online, it’s nice to have it all in one place you can trust.

The rest of the 206 pages are a collection of ancient lore and legends, trivia and wisdom. Among this issue’s lineup of obscure topics are “Waynaboozhoo: The Great Flood Story of the Ojibwa – A traditional tale of good and evil,” “The Margate Grotto: A Mystery Spelled in Shells,” and “The Singing Tower and Spook Hill: A Sacred Journey though Old Florida.”

The almanac’s short articles present a mix of perspectives and traditions; with more than 40, there is sure to be something of interest to you. Black-and-white images appear on nearly every page.

If you use the moon at all in your practice, you’ll be reaching for this again and again.

Spell

 

To Follow or Not to Follow, That is the Question

Merry meet.

Eye of newt, and toe of frog,

Wool of bat, and tongue of dog,

Adder’s fork, and blind-worm’s sting,

Lizard’s leg, and howlet’s wing,–

For a charm of powerful trouble,

Like a hell-broth boil and bubble.”

So said the 2nd Witch in Macbeth (IV, i, 14-15), as she and two other ugly witches stir the bubbling contents of their cauldron. It’s one of the most familiar spell castings associated with witchcraft.

In Shakespeare’s time, people believed in witches and their powers to do evil.

Every culture has magick in its history. Some oral traditions and written documentation have survived, which has led some groups to choose to follow old spells to the letter. The more eclectic the witch, the more likely he or she adapts and improvises.

You can easily find spells that call for seemingly ridiculous or difficult workings. There’s one to get rid of your daughter’s boyfriend by hard boiling an egg laid by a black hen in urine (yours, his or hers), peeling it and feeding half to a dog and half to a cat while saying a specific sentence about how the couple shall become enemies just as the animals are natural enemies.

There must be something magical about black hens, because if you want a long life, you’re supposed to eat the first egg laid by one.

One love spell calls for cooking a chicken heart, drying it, grinding it into a powder, adding powdered coriander seeds to it and then putting small amounts into your beloved’s food to inspire passion. Another directs you to fill a shot glass with your sweat and perhaps a drop of menstrual blood, then place it atop a copper sheet and hide it somewhere the one you want to love you will walk past.

To get someone to return to you, a spell calls for wrapping three fresh eggs and a teaspoon of salt in an article of clothing belonging to that person and burying it where a footpath branches out into a fork, forming a Y shape. Saying the absent person’s name three times, you then state your wishes only once, quietly to yourself, cover the hole and leave without looking back.

A love spell calls for stealing three hairs from a woman, one at a time … on three separate occasions … while she’s sleeping … and, for maximum effect, the hair should be taken from near the nape of the neck. The strands are then to be braided and pushed into a crack of a tree.

Iron boxes, a mandrake root exposed to moonlight, fenugreek seeds and a divining rod cut from mistletoe growing on hazel or thorn trees are all parts of money spells.

Some profess that these methods have stood the test of time. Other witches believe not all that that is necessary, and might even say that magick is stronger with it’s organic and personally meaningful.

Whether you choose to follow complicated, traditional spells to the letter or you are willing to improvise and keep it simple, it’s still magick you are working. Done with intention, respect and personal power, either should be effective.

If you don’t agree, let’s have a discussion below.

Merry part, and merry meet again.

The Good Witch’s Guide by Shawn Robbins & Charity Bedell

*Credit:  Excerpted with permission from The Good Witch’s Guide  © 2017 by Shawn Robbins and Charity Bedell, Sterling Ethos, an imprint of Sterling Publishing Co., Inc.

 

GoodWitchesGuide

 

 

Spells for Money

One of the most common sources of stress in modern life is money. We need money to pay the bills, obtain food, and have shelter. We have all had financial worries at some point or another. Some people struggle with earning enough money or are out of work. Other people may have unexpected expenses come up in their lives, like medical or repair bills. All of these issues cause stress, and too much stress can lead to illness. The following spells will help bring about a healthier bank balance and more peace of mind. Do be warned, though—casting spells for money will only bring about what a person actually needs, rather than what they desire: Never spellcast for greed, only for what you need.

 

Money-Packet Wish Spell

Materials

1 pen

1 green candle

1 sheet of paper

5 coins (4 pennies and 1 quarter, or for other currencies 5 silver coins will work fine)

40 inches (100 cm) thin green ribbon (giftwrapping style is fine)

Ritual

Using the pen, inscribe the wax of the candle with the word “money,” and then, using the same pen, write the word “money” on the paper. Go on to write all of the things you need the money for, using as much detail as possible. For example, if you need extra funds to pay the bills, write clearly in capital letters:

GAS BILL, ELECTRIC BILL, MORTGAGE PAYMENT, DENTAL BILL,

And so on.

As you write out your needs, pour your emotions into the paper. Place the coins on top of the paper, and light the green candle next to it. Say this spell seven times:

Like the trees growing free,

Prosperity there shall be.”

Keeping the coinage inside, start to fold the paper toward you, turning and folding the paper around the coins until you can’t fold it anymore. Take the green ribbon and wrap it around the packet. With every three rotations of the ribbon-wrapping, turn the packet toward you and chant these words seven times:

Money flowing free,

Prosperity there shall be.

Money worries gone from me.”

When the packet is almost completely covered with the ribbon, use what’s leftover to secure it with a knot. Drip wax from the candle onto the knot to seal the spell. Let the candle burn down, and bury any remains from it at the root of a tree near your home. Place the packet in your wallet or purse, or carry it in your pocket with you every day. If you wear a skirt or a dress, take a safety pin and pin the packet to the inside of your skirt or dress. Keep the packet with you until the money issues at hand have resolved. Then dispose of the packet at a crossroads or under a tree near your home.

 

Money-Tea Spell

Materials

Saucepan filled with water

Sharp knife

1 green candle

Copy of a utility bill or job application; anything that represents the need

Mortar and pestle

1?4 teaspoon finely chopped

chamomile flowers, either fresh or as dried tea (in a tea bag or loose)

2 teaspoons ground cinnamon

1?4 teaspoon finely chopped goldenrod, either fresh or as dried tea (in a tea bag or loose)

Strainer

Mug or cup

1 tablespoon sugar

2 teaspoons honey

Candleholder

Ritual

Put the pan of water on the stove and bring it to a boil. While the water is heating up, use the knife to inscribe the candle with words of your intent (“erase debt,” “find employment,” “pay bills,” etc.). Place the candle on top of a bill, job application, or a piece of paper with your need written on it.

With the mortar and pestle, grind together the herbs and 1 teaspoon of the cinnamon for the tea. As you mix them, visualize your financial stress disappearing and your desire materializing. As the water on the stove boils, charge it with images of financial security and what manifestations of prosperity and success would look like. Visualize a green and orange light flowing in the water.

Put the blended herbs into the boiling water. Leave it to simmer for a few minutes. Take the pan off of the heat, and leave to cool. When the tea is cool enough, dip your finger into it and anoint the unlit candle. The candle should stay sitting on top of the bill, application, or paper. Say this spell five times:

Money flowing free,

Money come to me.”

Pick up the candle and rub it a few times from bottom to top with your hand. Strain the tea into a cup and then mix in a teaspoon each of cinnamon, sugar, and honey. Repeat the chant five more times while you stir the tea clockwise. When you’ve finished, rub the candle down with the remaining honey, from the bottom to the top. Once the candle has been fully anointed with the honey, roll it in the remaining cinnamon and sugar. Next, place the candle in a holder and light it. Take a sip of the tea, then say this spell:

Money tea, I drink thee.

Prosperity there shall be.”

Drink the tea. When the candle burns down, take the wax and the strained herbs from the tea and bury them at a crossroads. If there are no crossroads available, a spot on your property or a plot of land is acceptable. You can toss them into the trash, but do so with a prayer or statement, so that it brings your intent to all corners of the world.

 

***

About the Authors:

 

Shawn Robbins is the author or coauthor of four highly successful books, including the newly released hardcover edition of Wiccapedia (Sterling) now used as a teaching and reference guide in many of the online Wicca schools. She has taught classes about herbs, health, and healing at the NY School of Occult Arts, as well as lecturing extensively throughout the country on this subject.

Charity Bedell (also known as Loona Wynd) has been a practicing witch for over 15 years, with an extensive knowledge of herbal medicine and magick. She has an online store where she sells her handmade herbs, tinctures, and oils (Mystic Echoes) and has a large following both in the Wiccan community and in mainstream America.

Useful Links:

http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-good-witchs-guide-shawn-robbins/1124566628

 

*Credit:  Excerpted with permission from The Good Witch’s Guide  © 2017 by Shawn Robbins and Charity Bedell, Sterling Ethos, an imprint of Sterling Publishing Co., Inc.

Trackback URI | Comments RSS

Leave a Reply