{"id":3646,"date":"2010-05-01T01:10:29","date_gmt":"2010-05-01T06:10:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/paganpages.org\/content\/?p=3705"},"modified":"2010-04-27T11:03:31","modified_gmt":"2010-04-27T16:03:31","slug":"ask-your-mama-4","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/paganpages.org\/emagazine\/2010\/05\/01\/ask-your-mama-4\/","title":{"rendered":"Ask Your Mama"},"content":{"rendered":"<p align=\"center\"><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: small;\"><strong>Are you cyclically  confused? In a ceremonial quandary? Completely clueless? Wonder no more. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: large;\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"> *Ask Your Mama<\/span><\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: small;\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">\u2122<\/span><\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: large;\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"> <\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: medium;\"><strong>The What, When, Where,  Why, How, and Who of <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: medium;\"><strong>Ceremony &amp; Spirituality <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: medium;\"><strong>by<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: medium;\"><strong>\u00a9Mama Donna Henes,  Urban Shaman<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: medium;\"><strong>A Question of Precipitation<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: small;\">Dear Mama Donna,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: small;\">It is raining again. For months now  it has rained just about every day. The entire Northeast is inundated  with more rain than we can possibly deal with. This seems like a curse  from above. Any thoughts?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: small;\">Soaked to the Bone in Syracuse<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: small;\">Dear Soaked,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: small;\">I know what you mean. This late winter  and spring have been so incredibly wet. Here in New York City there  are mushrooms growing out of the cracks in the sidewalks!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: small;\">Rain is the vital, vivifying fluid,  which flows down from the heavens to recycle and replenish the world&#8217;s  water stores. To refresh and revitalize the lands and all those species  who live upon it. Celestial substance of necessity, rain is absolutely  elemental and essential. But it can be quite quirky. You never know  with rain. Too much, too little, too late, too soon, too hard, too long.  You can&#8217;t really depend on it. And yet you have to.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: small;\">In the best of times, precipitation  is seen as beneficent, raining down life-sustaining liquids for our  benefit. And then we are grateful, or ought to be. But there is such  a thing as too much of a good thing. We are nearly drowning in the stuff.  Saturated, soaked, sogged. Completely waterlogged. Rivers rushing down  city streets, the drains overflowing. Towns, fields and highways flooded.  Dams, bridges, houses and lives swept irrevocably away. And the predicted  storms aren\u2019t over yet. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: small;\">People have long believed that bad weather  is some kind of vengeful divine retribution. Punishment for our earthly  misbehavior. Certainly in the face of extreme hardship, this is a tempting  response, based, perhaps, on guilt. But, of course, weather is weather,  a neutral force. Our perception of whether it is good or bad is based  solely and myopically on our own immediate inconvenience. Of course,  you can\u2019t take these acts of nature personally.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: small;\">But maybe this rain <em>is<\/em> truly  aimed at us as a lesson about the cause and effect of our selfish, wasteful,  polluting ways. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: small;\">Maybe Mother Earth is engaged in a deep  purification ritual, a much needed purging of Her soiled body and profound  pain. Picture Her, like any rape victim standing under a pounding shower  for hours, days and weeks, trying to wash away the dirt and degradation  that we have heaped upon Her so mercilessly. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: small;\">Or maybe She is weeping, sobbing, down  pouring tears of sad disappointment in us, Her errant, arrogant offspring,  so rude and disrespectful. After all, just look at what we gave the  Poor Old Dear for Mother\u2019s Day in gratitude for all of Her great gifts  to us: greenhouse gases, radiation, drilling, missile tests, oil spills  and chemical trails.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: small;\">The word \u201cprecipitation,\u201d is related  to \u201cprecipitate,\u201d which means impulsive, not thinking, impetuous,  rash \u2014 perfect descriptions of the way we treat the Earth. Makes you  think, eh?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: small;\">Maybe we <em>should<\/em> take this deluge  is a watery warning. A reminder to appreciate the present and prepare  for the future. To re-enforce our roofs, buy Wellington boots and build  a safe, waterproof ark where we can collect, preserve and protect, two  by two, all of our best intentions and human qualities: hope and love,  charity and understanding, forgiveness and peace, compassion and reverence  for all life. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: small;\">Best blessings for keeping dry,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: small;\">xxMama Donna<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: small;\">*Are you cyclically confused? In a ceremonial  quandary? Completely clueless? Wonder no more. *Send your questions  about seasons, cycles, celebrations, ceremonies and spirit to Mama Donna  at: <\/span><a href=\"mailto:CityShaman@aol.com\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; color: #0000ff; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">CityShaman@aol.com<\/span><\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; font-size: small;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">*****************************************************<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">Donna Henes is an internationally renowned  urban shaman, <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">eco-ceremonialist, award-winning author,  syndicated columnist, <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">popular speaker and workshop leader  whose joyful celebrations of celestial events have introduced ancient  traditional rituals and contemporary ceremonies to millions of people  in more than <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">100 cities since 1972. She has published  four books, a CD, <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">an acclaimed quarterly journal and  writes a column for UPI <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">(United Press International) Religion  and Spirituality Forum. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">Mama Donna, as she is affectionately  called, maintains a <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">ceremonial center, spirit shop, ritual  practice and consultancy<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">in Exotic Brooklyn, NY where she works  with individuals, groups,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">institutions, municipalities and corporations  to create meaningful<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">ceremonies for every imaginable occasion.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">For information about upcoming events  and services contact:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">Mama Donna&#8217;s Tea Garden &amp; Healing  Haven<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">PO Box 380403 <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">Exotic Brooklyn, New York, NY 11238-0403<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">Phone: 718\/857-1343<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">Email: <a href=\"mailto:CityShaman@aol.com\" target=\"_blank\">CityShaman@aol.com<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: #0000ff; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.donnahenes.net\/\" target=\"_blank\">www.DonnaHenes.net<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: #0000ff; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamadonnasspiritshop.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">www.MamaDonnasSpiritShop.com\/<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: #0000ff; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.thequeenofmyself.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">www.TheQueenofMySelf.com<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: #0000ff; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Donna_Henes\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Donna_Henes<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">Watch her videos:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Geneva; color: #0000ff; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/user\/MamaDonnaHenes\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/user\/MamaDonnaHenes<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">Follow her on Twitter:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: #0000ff; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/queenmamadonna\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/twitter.com\/queenmamadonna<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">Connect with her on Facebook:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: #0000ff; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/#\/donnahenes?ref=profile\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/#\/donnahenes?ref=profile<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">Read her on the Huffington Post<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: #0000ff; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/donna-henes\/\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/donna-henes\/<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you cyclically confused? In a ceremonial quandary? Completely clueless? Wonder no more. *Ask Your Mama\u2122 The What, When, Where, Why, How, and Who of Ceremony &amp; Spirituality by \u00a9Mama Donna Henes, Urban Shaman A Question of Precipitation Dear Mama Donna, It is raining again. For months now it has rained just about every day. The entire Northeast is inundated with more rain than we can possibly deal with. This seems like a curse from above. Any thoughts? Soaked to the Bone in Syracuse Dear Soaked, I know what you mean. This late winter and spring have been so incredibly wet. Here in New York City there are mushrooms growing out of the cracks in the sidewalks! Rain is the vital, vivifying fluid, which flows down from the heavens to recycle and replenish the world&#8217;s water stores. To refresh and revitalize the lands and all those species who live upon it. Celestial substance of necessity, rain is absolutely elemental and essential. But it can be quite quirky. You never know with rain. Too much, too little, too late, too soon, too hard, too long. You can&#8217;t really depend on it. And yet you have to. In the best of times, precipitation is seen as beneficent, raining down life-sustaining liquids for our benefit. And then we are grateful, or ought to be. But there is such a thing as too much of a good thing. We are nearly drowning in the stuff. Saturated, soaked, sogged. Completely waterlogged. Rivers rushing down city streets, the drains overflowing. Towns, fields and highways flooded. Dams, bridges, houses and lives swept irrevocably away. And the predicted storms aren\u2019t over yet. People have long believed that bad weather is some kind of vengeful divine retribution. Punishment for our earthly misbehavior. Certainly in the face of extreme hardship, this is a tempting response, based, perhaps, on guilt. But, of course, weather is weather, a neutral force. Our perception of whether it is good or bad is based solely and myopically on our own immediate inconvenience. Of course, you can\u2019t take these acts of nature personally. But maybe this rain is truly aimed at us as a lesson about the cause and effect of our selfish, wasteful, polluting ways. Maybe Mother Earth is engaged in a deep purification ritual, a much needed purging of Her soiled body and profound pain. Picture Her, like any rape victim standing under a pounding shower for hours, days and weeks, trying to wash away the dirt and degradation that we have heaped upon Her so mercilessly. Or maybe She is weeping, sobbing, down pouring tears of sad disappointment in us, Her errant, arrogant offspring, so rude and disrespectful. After all, just look at what we gave the Poor Old Dear for Mother\u2019s Day in gratitude for all of Her great gifts to us: greenhouse gases, radiation, drilling, missile tests, oil spills and chemical trails. The word \u201cprecipitation,\u201d is related to \u201cprecipitate,\u201d which means impulsive, not thinking, impetuous, rash \u2014 perfect descriptions of the way we treat the Earth. Makes you think, eh? Maybe we should take this deluge is a watery warning. A reminder to appreciate the present and prepare for the future. To re-enforce our roofs, buy Wellington boots and build a safe, waterproof ark where we can collect, preserve and protect, two by two, all of our best intentions and human qualities: hope and love, charity and understanding, forgiveness and peace, compassion and reverence for all life. Best blessings for keeping dry, xxMama Donna *Are you cyclically confused? In a ceremonial quandary? Completely clueless? Wonder no more. *Send your questions about seasons, cycles, celebrations, ceremonies and spirit to Mama Donna at: CityShaman@aol.com ***************************************************** Donna Henes is an internationally renowned urban shaman, eco-ceremonialist, award-winning author, syndicated columnist, popular speaker and workshop leader whose joyful celebrations of celestial events have introduced ancient traditional rituals and contemporary ceremonies to millions of people in more than 100 cities since 1972. She has published four books, a CD, an acclaimed quarterly journal and writes a column for UPI (United Press International) Religion and Spirituality Forum. Mama Donna, as she is affectionately called, maintains a ceremonial center, spirit shop, ritual practice and consultancy in Exotic Brooklyn, NY where she works with individuals, groups, institutions, municipalities and corporations to create meaningful ceremonies for every imaginable occasion. For information about upcoming events and services contact: Mama Donna&#8217;s Tea Garden &amp; Healing Haven PO Box 380403 Exotic Brooklyn, New York, NY 11238-0403 Phone: 718\/857-1343 Email: CityShaman@aol.com www.DonnaHenes.net www.MamaDonnasSpiritShop.com\/ www.TheQueenofMySelf.com http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Donna_Henes Watch her videos: http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/user\/MamaDonnaHenes Follow her on Twitter: http:\/\/twitter.com\/queenmamadonna Connect with her on Facebook: http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/#\/donnahenes?ref=profile Read her on the Huffington Post http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/donna-henes\/<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":85,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"iawp_total_views":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3646","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/paganpages.org\/emagazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3646","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/paganpages.org\/emagazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/paganpages.org\/emagazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paganpages.org\/emagazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/85"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paganpages.org\/emagazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3646"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/paganpages.org\/emagazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3646\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/paganpages.org\/emagazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3646"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paganpages.org\/emagazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3646"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/paganpages.org\/emagazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3646"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}