A while after I started studying paganism, I introduced it to my children. I mainly explained to them that I was on a different spiritual journey and I wanted to explain the term paganism to them and how it differed from Christianity. As a child, Christianity was shoved down my throat. This was taught to me to be the only religion in the world and anything else was a deceitful act by the devil. Once I started doubting Christianity, I knew that I didn’t want my children to be sheltered when it came to their own beliefs. I really wanted them to understand the term Freedom of Religion. Therefore, even today as I practice witchcraft and read all the many books I possess, I do this openly in front of my children. I explain to them what I am doing and why. I allow them to ask any questions they may have. One thing I don’t do is have them participate with me. I let them get involved if they show interest.
At first, I wasn’t sure if this was the right approach to take. However, I see now that this was the best option. If I had always been pagan and then had children, I have no doubt that they would have been raised as pagans. But, since this was clearly not the case, all I knew to do was to leave a door open and a window cracked. They would enter on their own or they would pass it by altogether. On that note, I have seen great interest from both of my sons. My 14 year old has had endless discussions with me on various pagan topics. He is trying to figure out where he stands on his beliefs. He has even danced around the idea of atheism, but came back to me with more questions showing a bit of uncertainty on this idea. He is always curious as to what I am studying and enjoys the discussions triggered from my current insights. As for my 8 year old, he doesn’t discuss spiritual topics too often, but when he does, it makes me stop in my tracks because it is often out of the blue that he brings things up. He has informed me that he believes there are many deities and he enjoys talking one on one with his natural environment. He also has found a strong liking to my set of runes. He tells me he doesn’t understand why he likes them but he feels good when he holds them in his hands. I find that I enjoy seeing my children explore their spiritual side. I am glad I have provided them an opportunity to do so.
Now I would like to hear from other pagan parents. Share with me how you have approached paganism or any other spiritual belief with your children. If you currently do not have children, share with us your plans on how you will handle this in the future. Feel free to share how you share paganism with any children.
Thank you all for all the wonderful comments left for last month’s article. I have enjoyed reading the comments left and appreciate you taking the time to share your opinions with me and the other readers.